The Attachment Circle

A DIGITAL VILLAGE FOR THE MODERN WORLD.
TRUSTED COMPANIONS ON A SHARED JOURNEY.

A DIGITAL VILLAGE FOR THE MODERN WORLD. TRUSTED COMPANIONS ON A SHARED JOURNEY.

Attachment measures
a person’s ability
to connect to
other human beings.

connect

KEY PRINCIPLES
  • Honesty
  • Compassion
  • Respect
  • Integrity
  • Courage
THE ATTACHMENT CIRCLE is an exclusive, private online community of people who are healing their broken attachments and want to help others do the same. It’s a safe space for people looking to learn about healthy attachment, experience trusting relationships, and connect to others who hold honesty, integrity, respect, courage, and compassion in the highest regard.
By coming together to share advice, experiences, and knowledge, you will be able to build, repair, and improve your attachment without the fear of judgment.
It’s not enough to learn about attachment.

You’ve got to experience
healthy relationships to understand
what to do.

If you want to improve your relationships, repair your attachment style,
and build a better life, then this group is for you.

Attachment measures
a person’s ability
to connect to other
human beings.

connect

KEY PRINCIPLES
  • Honesty
  • Compassion
  • Respect
  • Integrity
  • Courage
THE ATTACHMENT CIRCLE is an exclusive, private online community of people who are healing their broken attachments and want to help others do the same. It’s a safe space for people looking to learn about healthy attachment, experience trusting relationships, and connect to others who hold honesty, integrity, respect, courage, and compassion in the highest regard.
By coming together to share advice, experiences, and knowledge, you will be able to build, repair, and improve your attachment without the fear of judgment.

Choose Your Subscription Plan

Various subscription plans available.

12-month
subscription plan

only $450

PLANS AVAILABLE FOR AS LOW AS $50.
It’s not enough to learn about attachment.

You’ve got to experience
healthy relationships to understand
what to do.

If you want to improve your relationships,
your attachment style, and build a better life,
then this group is for you.

Choose Your Subscription Plan

Various subscription plans available.

12-month subscription plan

only $450

PLANS AVAILABLE FOR AS LOW AS $50.

Do you ever encounter this?

Everywhere you look, it seems like people are miserable.
They’re causing their own unhappiness by lying and manipulating
their way to the top, yet complain about how lonely they are and
that nobody likes them.

Everywhere you look, it seems like
people are miserable.
They’re causing their own
unhappiness by lying and
manipulating their way to the top,
yet complain about how lonely
they are and that nobody
likes them.

Don’t they realize they’re making their life worse? DON’T THEY CARE?
Doesn’t it bother them that they’re hurting people like you who just want to get better?
The thing is, most of these people have never seen a healthy marriage or family system,
so they can’t imagine what they’re supposed to build or how it should look… do you?

Don’t they realize they’re making their life worse?
DON’T THEY CARE? Doesn’t it bother them that
they’re hurting people like you who just want to
get better? The thing is, most of these people
have never seen a healthy marriage or family
system, so they can’t imagine what they’re
supposed to build or how it should look… do you?

How can you build HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS
if you’ve never experienced one?

If you’re looking at this group, you probably grew up in an environment that caused you to form unhealthy attachments that, at some point in your life, have caused you to struggle with your relationships.
Maybe you grew up in a family where you couldn’t speak the truth, were punished for asking that your needs be met, or were scolded for standing up for yourself when someone hurt you. Kids are born ready and willing to trust and engage, but that desire to connect breaks when they’re taught that no one is able to show them the love they need and deserve.
As you got older, it’s likely your situation became even worse. Broken attachment often leads people into situations where they are further mistreated. Abusive partners, fake friends, manipulative bosses–people who made you believe the world really is as cold as your parents made you believe.
Now, you’re trying to fix your relationships, but you can’t heal in the same environments that hurt you. If that sounds like your life, you need a new environment. It’s time to jump out of the corrupted pond you’ve been swimming in to reach the ocean–a place to find people who value trust and sincerity instead of punishing it. It’s time to find people who know how to love each other.

If you don’t know where to find them, you’ll think they don’t exist.

That’s where my Attachment Circle comes in. THE ATTACHMENT CIRCLE is a community built specifically for people recovering from broken attachments to connect with others who understand them. It’s a group built on the foundation of trust and honesty–the same foundation for secure attachments.

How can you build HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS
if you’ve never experienced one?

If you’re looking at this group, you probably grew up in an environment that caused you to form unhealthy attachments that, at some point in your life, have caused you to struggle with your relationships.
Maybe you grew up in a family where you couldn’t speak the truth, were punished for asking that your needs be met, or were scolded for standing up for yourself when someone hurt you. Kids are born ready and willing to trust and engage, but that desire to connect breaks when they’re taught that no one is able to show them the love they need and deserve.
As you got older, it’s likely your situation became even worse. Broken attachment often leads people into situations where they are further mistreated. Abusive partners, fake friends, manipulative bosses–people who made you believe the world really is as cold as your parents made you believe.
Now, you’re trying to fix your relationships, but you can’t heal in the same environments that hurt you. If that sounds like your life, you need a new environment. It’s time to jump out of the corrupted pond you’ve been swimming in to reach the ocean–a place to find people who value trust and sincerity instead of punishing it. It’s time to find people who know how to love each other.

If you don’t know where to find them, you’ll think they don’t exist.

That’s where my Attachment Circle comes in. THE ATTACHMENT CIRCLE is a community built specifically for people recovering from broken attachments to connect with others who understand them. It’s a group built on the foundation of trust and honesty–the same foundation for secure attachments.

How can you build
HEALTHY
RELATIONSHIPS

if you’ve never
experienced one?

If you’re looking at this group, you probably grew up in an environment that caused you to form unhealthy attachments that, at some point in your life, have caused you to struggle with your relationships.
Maybe you grew up in a family where you couldn’t speak the truth, were punished for asking that your needs be met, or were scolded for standing up for yourself when someone hurt you. Kids are born ready and willing to trust and engage, but that desire to connect breaks when they’re taught that no one is able to show them the love they need and deserve.
As you got older, it’s likely your situation became even worse. Broken attachment often leads people into situations where they are further mistreated. Abusive partners, fake friends, manipulative bosses–people who made you believe the world really is as cold as your parents made you believe.
Now, you’re trying to fix your relationships, but you can’t heal in the same environments that hurt you. If that sounds like your life, you need a new environment. It’s time to jump out of the corrupted pond you’ve been swimming in to reach the ocean–a place to find people who value trust and sincerity instead of punishing it. It’s time to find people who know how to love each other.

If you don’t know where to find them,
you’ll think they don’t exist.

That’s where my Attachment Circle comes in.
THE ATTACHMENT CIRCLE is a community built specifically for people recovering from broken attachments to connect with others who understand them. It’s a group built on the foundation of trust and honesty–the same foundation for secure attachments.

As we connect with
each other in an

honest and open way,
we rewrite
our fearful
brains.

As we connect with each other
in an honest and open way,
we rewrite our fearful brains.

People within THE ATTACHMENT CIRCLE community are committed to working together to improve their lives and the world around them. Attachment isn’t everything, but it paves the way for everything else to fall into place.
I’m Adam Lane Smith, the Attachment Specialist, and I’ve built this community to help people just like you–but I can’t do it alone. One man is not a circle.

FORTUNATELY, MANY HAVE ALREADY
ANSWERED MY CALL.

THE ATTACHMENT CIRCLE is currently thriving. It’s filled with passionate conversations about relationships, parenting, self-care, communication, and useful resources. This community supports one another in the hard work that goes into healing attachment issues.

NO MORE GUESSING. NO MORE WONDERING.
NO MORE FEAR.

NO MORE GUESSING. NO MORE WONDERING.

NO MORE FEAR.

Who is the
Attachment Circle
for?

Who is the
Attachment Circle
not for?

THE ATTACHMENT CIRCLE is an online gathering place for anyone who wants to learn about healthy attachment, experience trusting relationships, and work towards building a better life.

Are you hungry to know more about how relationships are supposed to work? To push back against the cold expectation that life=pain and love=fake?

THIS COMMUNITY AIMS TO SHOW THE WORLD THAT LOVE IS AS REAL AS YOU CHOOSE TO MAKE IT–IT JUST REQUIRES A DEDICATION TO SHARED VALUES AND A WILLINGNESS TO ACT ON THOSE VALUES.

Those who are already in the Attachment Circle are always looking for more companions to share healthy attachments with–especially those who want to take what they learn from this online group and use it to transform their local communities.

THE ATTACHMENT CIRCLE is not for people who don’t want to change. Anyone who is looking to start drama, judge others, and form cliques would not only be a bad fit, but I won’t allow them into our community.

This group has set rules, and I am firmly committed to enforcing them to keep our community a safe space where you don’t have to worry about your interactions with each other.

Who is the
Attachment Circle for?

THE ATTACHMENT CIRCLE is an online gathering place for anyone who wants to learn about healthy attachment, experience trusting relationships, and work towards building a better life.

Are you hungry to know more about how relationships are supposed to work? To push back against the cold expectation that life=pain and love=fake?

THIS COMMUNITY AIMS TO SHOW THE WORLD THAT LOVE IS AS REAL AS YOU CHOOSE TO MAKE IT–IT JUST REQUIRES A DEDICATION TO SHARED VALUES AND A WILLINGNESS TO ACT ON THOSE VALUES.

Those who are already in the Attachment Circle are always looking for more companions to share healthy attachments with–especially those who want to take what they learn from this online group and use it to transform their local communities.

Who is the
Attachment Circle
NOT for
?

THE ATTACHMENT CIRCLE is not for people who don’t want to change. Anyone who is looking to start drama, judge others, and form cliques would not only be a bad fit, but I won’t allow them into our community.

This group has set rules, and I am firmly committed to enforcing them to keep our community a safe space where you don’t have to worry about your interactions with each other.

what can
new members expect
from the
Attachment Circle?

THE ATTACHMENT CIRCLE is a Discord community of stable, supportive people on a shared journey to achieve secure attachment and everything that comes with it.
This ONLINE SPACE will continue indefinitely, but as our group grows, I hope people start finding and connecting with each other in their local communities as well.

BUT ENOUGH OF MY LOFTY GOALS–
LET’S GET DOWN TO THE MEASURABLE AND
ACTIONABLE COMPONENTS THAT MAKE THIS
GROUP SUCH A VALUABLE RESOURCE.

what can
new members
expect from the
Attachment Circle?

THE ATTACHMENT CIRCLE is a Discord community of stable, supportive people on a shared journey to achieve secure attachment and everything that comes with it.

This ONLINE SPACE will continue indefinitely, but as our group grows, I hope people start finding and connecting with each other in their local communities as well.

BUT ENOUGH OF MY LOFTY GOALS– LET’S GET DOWN TO THE MEASURABLE AND ACTIONABLE COMPONENTS THAT MAKE THIS GROUP SUCH A VALUABLE RESOURCE.

Your membership grants you immediate access to THE DISCORD COMMUNITY with a range of separate “rooms” sorted by topic. Those topics include PARENTING CONCERNS, MANAGING ADDICTIONS, FAMILY TROUBLE, WORK PROBLEMS, DATING WORRIES, and MARRIAGE STRATEGIES, to name a few.

Additionally, I’ll spend at least two sessions per week immersed completely in the group for live events, Q&A sessions, video streams, and community discussions on key attachment topics. These offerings will expand as the group grows.

THIS IS MORE THAN JUST A SUPPORT GROUP.

This is an ONGOING DAILY ENGAGEMENT with people who can share advice, teach you targeted strategies, and help you with your deepest relationship concerns. Don’t worry–it’s not done with the expectation that you’ll leave the group once your attachment issues are resolved. We are building life-long relationships here. Think of it as a digital village for people who are serious about placing truth, honesty, and love at the core of their lives.

You’ll be entering a new environment with people you can work beside, share friendships with, and help make the world a better place for yourself and your descendants.

Hey, Adam–why are you
charging for this?

Anyone who has been on the internet before knows that trolls are everywhere. A free online group is practically a handwritten invitation for them to infiltrate our community, and I refuse to allow that to happen.
The monthly fee is essentially the filter that keeps our community private and exclusive, so people who are serious about healing their attachments don’t have to worry about any imposters. It also helps fund moderators to track discussions and alert me to anything that goes against our group rules. I want to stay on top of potential problems before they blow up, and the monthly fee helps keep us all secure from people who don’t want to act honestly or with respect.
This group forms the core of my long-term work and I will be dedicating more and more of my time to it as it expands. The monthly fee relieves me of the need to do other paid work so I can be as present as possible with the community.

It’s time to take action.

Enough is enough.
THE ATTACHMENT CIRCLE community is making
the changes we all want to see in the world.
Are you ready to do the same?
I’LL SEE YOU THERE.

Get Started Today!

Hey, Adam–why are you
charging for this?

Anyone who has been on the internet before knows that trolls are everywhere. A free online group is practically a handwritten invitation for them to infiltrate our community, and I refuse to allow that to happen.
The monthly fee is essentially the filter that keeps our community private and exclusive, so people who are serious about healing their attachments don’t have to worry about any imposters. It also helps fund moderators to track discussions and alert me to anything that goes against our group rules. I want to stay on top of potential problems before they blow up, and the monthly fee helps keep us all secure from people who don’t want to act honestly or with respect.
This group forms the core of my long-term work and I will be dedicating more and more of my time to it as it expands. The monthly fee relieves me of the need to do other paid work so I can be as present as possible with the community.

Your membership grants you immediate access to THE DISCORD COMMUNITY with a range of separate “rooms” sorted by topic. Those topics include PARENTING CONCERNS, MANAGING ADDICTIONS, FAMILY TROUBLE, WORK PROBLEMS, DATING WORRIES, and MARRIAGE STRATEGIES, to name a few.

Additionally, I’ll spend at least two sessions per week immersed completely in the group for live events, Q&A sessions, video streams, and community discussions on key attachment topics. These offerings will expand as the group grows.

THIS IS MORE THAN JUST A SUPPORT GROUP.

This is an ONGOING DAILY ENGAGEMENT with people who can share advice, teach you targeted strategies, and help you with your deepest relationship concerns. Don’t worry–it’s not done with the expectation that you’ll leave the group once your attachment issues are resolved. We are building life-long relationships here. Think of it as a digital village for people who are serious about placing truth, honesty, and love at the core of their lives.

You’ll be entering a new environment with people you can work beside, share friendships with, and help make the world a better place for yourself and your descendants.

It’s time to take action.

Enough is enough.
THE ATTACHMENT CIRCLE community is making
the changes we all want to see in the world.
Are you ready to do the same?
I’LL SEE YOU THERE.

Get Started Today!

Choose Your Subscription Plan

Choose Your
Subscription Plan

Each subscription includes recurring payment

best value

12 month

$450

$450 billed every 12 months

1 month

$50

$50 billed every month

6 month

$255

$255 billed every 6 months

3 month

$135

$135 billed every 3 months

best value

12 month

$450

$450 billed every 12 months

1 month

$50

$50 billed every month

6 month

$255

$255 billed every 6 months

3 month

$135

$135 billed every 3 months
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What the Attachment Circle has to offer that other methods don’t.

As we connect with each other in an honest and open way, we rewrite our fear-ful brains.
People in this community form an inner circle of trusted companions who work together to improve their lives and the world around them. You can learn to trust other people because you know who they are, what they want, and where their boundaries are.
No more guessing. No more wondering. No more fear.
You’re here, which means you believe in good attachment as the foundation of a healthy life. Attachment isn’t everything, but it paves the way for everything else. You know that, and you want to help spread that message. To immerse yourself in it. To feel it.
I’ve built the community to help you do that.