Consultations – Adam Lane Smith

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ATTACHMENT CONSULTATIONS

Adam's
Attachment
Coaching

Attachment specialist Adam Lane
Smith brings his solution-focused
coaching system to find answers
to your problems, improve
your relationships, and
achieve your life goals.

Adam Lane Smith

I’m attachment specialist Adam Lane Smith. I worked for years in corrections, in-home settings, and clinical care, and in that time I helped address practically every challenge a human being can face. Death-penalty inmates trying to ﬁgure out how to tell their little kids Daddy is never coming home because of what he’s done. Millionaire entrepreneurs who feel hollow after building their fortune. Single moms working multiple jobs and barely holding their home together as their teens become deﬁant. Trust-fund families with suicidal children. Homeless heroin addicts wondering if it would be better for their small children to reconnect as a family or cut ties forever.

Stop living with painful attachment issues. Contact Adam today and start your healing.

Attachment coaching with Adam is for people who:

Feel insecure in their relationships
Stay up worrying at night instead of sleeping
Worry what their loved ones really think of them
Can’t say “No” because they’re afraid of disappointing people
Feel like they’re one mistake away from ruining everything
Crave approval from everyone they meet
Get hurt again and again in relationships and feel helpless and want to make it stop but don’t know how

EXPERIENCE

6 years in school for my MA in Psychology
Personal study with the head of corrections at a
Personal study with the administrator of a group home
3 years of apprenticeship under 5 clinicians with 4 different license types
Years of practice as a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist treating individuals, couples, families, and groups
Experience working with corrections, in-home clients disabled due to mental illness, and years in a clinical set
Training in solution-focused treatment strategies that work faster than most therapy approaches
Experience training other healthcare professionals and delivering educational seminars on my specialties
Multiple published books being used right now by clinicians across the US to treat their patients
Experience working with corrections, in-home clients disabled due to mental illness, and years in a clinical setting

the one factor they all shared: broken relationships.

Especially broken attachment. Their ability to connect to others and even to themselves was twisted and didn’t ﬁt right. And it was my job to help them repair it.

When you’re in pain, you want relief fast. But traditional therapy takes a long time. At an average of $100 per hour and one session per week, it may take six months and $2,400 to address one problem.

But most families don’t have six months to waste on pleasantries, therapeutic formalities, and unfocused treatment that goes nowhere.

And many clients are in therapy for a year or more. Imagine spending two years and $10,400 on therapy and not solving the biggest problems in your life.

If you’re hurting, you want help right away. And I’ve been trained to give you that help.

When time was short, my clinical
supervisors brought me in to
get the job done fast and right.

When your time is short, you want me on your side.

Your ﬁrst booking is an introductory assessment where you and I get to know each other. You tell me the number one problem in your life you want to solve. After that, I’ve got about 100 questions I need to ask to ﬁgure out where you’re at. Then we talk about how to solve your problem, and I tell you how long that should take.

Next we will have a solution session where I’ll walk you through the process of solving your problem. By the end of the second session you will have at least one practical step toward ﬁxing your life’s biggest issue.

Then you decide if you want to work with me past the second session. Zero pressure. No contract, no obligation, and no guilt if you want to walk away.

When you decide to keep going, we hit the ground running. Every additional session should contain a minimum of one more practical step you can take to solve your targeted problem. I’m not here to ﬁll up time by asking you how you feel about your problems. I’m here to help solve them.

let’s find your solution:

When you hire attachment specialist Adam Lane Smith, you get access to my years of licensed mental health practice, my dual specialities in attachment and trauma, my personal experience in marriage and parenting, and my wealth of knowledge about building systems and logical processes. That’s why I can offer this unique, one-of-a-kind attachment coaching to target your relationship goals and help you achieve them no matter what obstacles you face.

This solution-focused coaching system makes it possible for anyone to achieve their life goals. Even if you’ve felt stuck for years. Or decades. And you feel like it’s hopeless. I start by assessing where you are now and documenting your goals to build you a customized step-by-step method to achieve them, with no step missed. If you don’t know where to start, I can help you ﬁnd that ﬁrst step and map out the next ﬁve steps in your sequence so you know exactly what to do and how to do it. And you won’t be alone as you walk, because I can troubleshoot any situation with you and ﬁgure out how to overcome the barriers you encounter.

It’s like having a magic solution machine in your pocket so you never feel lost again.

Instead of therapy, I’m offering solution-focused coaching that cuts through the red tape and gets to the heart of your problem as fast as possible.

And instead of six months or a year, my goal is to get your issues solved fast, sometimes in as little as one month. I don’t want to keep you on the hook for years of coaching. I want you in and out as fast as you’re willing to go while giving you the help you need to live a better life than you ever dreamed was possible.

This isn’t therapy. This is focused life improvement on the issues that have hurt you for years or decades. I’ve helped people in their ﬁfties ﬁnally recover from trauma in their childhood that prevented them from living a normal life. At ﬁfty, they ﬁnally got their life back. I’ve helped people in their seventies with terminal illnesses build a plan to get their broken family back on track before the client died.

Most of my clients spent years in therapy before
coming to me. They wasted tens of thousands of
dollars in healthcare costs and still haven’t solved
their problems. And in just a few sessions, I give
them the practical solutions they’ve been looking
for. Don’t waste tens of thousands of dollars and
years of your life. Let me show you how to ﬁx your
problems fast for a fraction of the price.

Do you want your problems solved in six weeks or
six months? What if we can get yours resolved in
four sessions? Or three? I’ve had some couples
who experienced an affair resolve their issues in a
single month and come out happier than they’d
ever been.

let’s find your solutions.
select your package today!

This is not a replacement for medically advised treatment.

LIFE OVERHAUL package

You feel lost, isolated and hopeless. You don’t know where to start, and can’t stand being like this.

The path forward begins with ﬁxing your attachment – and building the healthy foundations for all of your relationships. As you repair yourself and your ability to bond, everything else in life will become attainable. It may feel overwhelming, but don’t worry. I can show you how to make it all happen in as little as a few weeks. Let’s get started and stop the suffering – today.

I created this solution-focused ten-session coaching program to completely overhaul every part of your life by building healthy attachment. Attachment is the foundation of everything else you want to build. Even if you know absolutely nothing about relationships, don’t worry – we begin at step zero and I will show you exactly what to do and in what order. By the end, you’ll know how to feel stronger and more conﬁdent, improve all your relationships to be happier and more fulﬁlling, and build a life you’re proud to live. I will guide you through each step, but the accomplishment will be all yours – so that you can build a lifelong foundation for happiness and satisfaction. No case is hopeless, so don’t put up with feeling alone any longer.

When you select this 10-SESSION COACHING PACKAGE I will teach you how to:

Recognize the way your current attachment has shaped your life
Overcome the limiting beliefs that hold you back
Find your principles,keep them no matter what, and build conﬁdence in who you really are
Manage your worry, fear, and sadness
Decrease chronic agitation
Make better life decisions without guilt or regret
Improve communication with others
Manage tension like a pro
Connect with others and build intimate bonds that you can trust
Find purpose in life that will make you proud of yourself
Develop a legacy that you can leave behind
Invest in relationships instead of investing in outcomes
Be treated like a human being in your relationships instead of like an object
Crush perfectionism
End procrastination
Build deeper friendships
Find lifelong romantic love that lasts
And put all of this together into a fulﬁlling life with people who love you

SELECT THIS COACHING TIER TO OVERHAUL YOUR LIFE WITH HEALTHY ATTACHMENT. TOGETHER WE CAN BUILD YOU A LIFE YOU’RE PROUD OF – ONCE AND FOR ALL.

Relationship Rescue package

Worried about your romantic relationship? Let’s ﬁx it together.

Do you feel that your romantic relationship is on the cusp of disaster, but just can’t let go? Overwhelmed by problems, but don’t know how to ﬁx them, or where to start? If you want to avoid breaking up, you need immediate, targeted solutions. We can work together to repair the damage, ﬁx resentment and lay a new foundation for success. I’ll show you the true cause of your relationship’s crisis, empower you to solve problems with powerful relationship tools, and show you how to rescue your love.

Select this EIGHT-SESSION COACHING PACKAGE to learn how to:

Master communication
Satisfy needs
Manage concerns
Handle the tension
Address resentments in a healthy way
Build your relationship as a team
Decrease the severity and frequency of ﬁghts
Mend the wounds you’ve inﬂicted on each other
Rebuild trust where it’s been damaged
Rekindle emotional and physical intimacy
Prevent future disasters by building a self-correcting relationship
Run your relationship like a pro
Build a relationship driven by purpose and goals you both want
And build an intimate bond that can last a lifetime.

IF YOU’RE TIRED OF THE FIGHTING AND WANT TO GET BACK TO LOVING EACH OTHER, BOOK THIS COACHING PACKAGE RIGHT NOW AND LET’S MAKE IT HAPPEN.

Relationship Boost package

Want to boost your relationship with healthy attachment? I’m ready to help.

Your romantic relationship can always get better. This boost program will help you ﬁx your romantic behaviors, protect your current relationship or make your next one better, and help you build more intimate bonds. Whether you’re looking to establish a lifelong bond with your current partner or to maximize your chances in dating, I can give you the answers you’re looking for.

Select this FOUR-SESSION COACHING PACKAGE to unlock four sessions where I’ll teach you how to:

Improve communication
Respect needs
Express concerns
Build a shared language as a couple
Deescalate tension and stop ﬁghts
Improve emotional and physical intimacy
Avoid affairs and divorce
And build a lifetime love that lasts

IF YOU’RE READY TO BOOST YOUR RELATIONSHIP TO THE NEXT LEVEL, SIGN UP FOR THIS PACKAGE AND GET STARTED TODAY.

Single Session

One targeted session to cut to the heart of your issues and build a roadmap for the future.

You know you want to ﬁx your attachment. But you’re not sure yet how deep the wounds go. I am ready to meet with you one-on-one to show you what secret factors have held you back. And I can give you a vision of what your life could look like after we ﬁx your attachment together. Let’s start with one session and assess all your concerns, build your goals, and get basic information about what that process would look like.

When you book this SINGLE-SESSION we will:

Build a plan to correct your life
Set the goals you’ve been missing
Reveal the unseen factors that have been holding you back
Learn what’s normal and what’s not in relationships
And discuss what we can accomplish together by ﬁxing your attachment

SELECT THIS COACHING SESSION TO GET STARTED AND DISCOVER HOW WE CAN SOLVE YOUR PROBLEMS TOGETHER.

Custom Solution package

You know your challenges better than anyone. If none of the packages on this page match your problems, let’s build a coaching plan that does meet your needs.

Every person’s life is unique. I’ve put the most common coaching plans together with discounts on the bundle price. But if you don’t see your speciﬁc issue, I’m happy to cut you a deal and meet your exact needs. Let’s talk about how we can build you a custom plan that targets your biggest attachment goals.

Select this CUSTOM PACKAGE if you:

Have unique challenges you want addressed during sessions
Aren’t sure what your goals are and don’t know which bundle is right for you
Want to ﬁx lifelong problems that you have trouble articulating
Want Adam’s help building a custom plan to overcome issues no one else has understood

SEND ME AN EMAIL AND LET’S BUILD YOU A CUSTOM PLAN THAT MEETS YOUR NEEDS.

Have questions? Here the answer.

ISN’T THIS JUST EXPENSIVE THERAPY?

No. This is accelerated solution-focused coaching that cuts to the heart of your problem. And it runs on my proven attachment model, so you don’t get bogged down worrying about feelings. It’s all about ﬁxing your relationships which changes your life experience.

ARE YOU CLAIMING TO REPLACE THERAPY? OR MEDICATION?

Diagnosed issues should be addressed by the appropriate professionals. I do not diagnose conditions. I help you identify the problems in your life and give you solutions to ﬁx them. Nothing prevents you from doing all of the above plus working with me. But from my experience, my process may cut months or years off of most people’s journey toward peace and joy.

CAN WE BOOK A COUPLES SESSION?

Not at this time. My process runs too fast for most couples. Because many couples (even happy ones) slow that process down with arguing and addressing hurts that could be better done with a mediator. My role is to bring solutions and help apply them fast. The best option for couples is to select the one partner most motivated to get the issue resolved and schedule them with me for one-on-one solution work. I’ve done couples therapy for years and I know not to take sides when speaking to one person, because taking sides doesn’t solve the problem. I’ll give you the solutions you need and you apply them as a couple.

Adam Lane Smith is a retired psychotherapist turned attachment specialist who helps people repair the foundation of their life and build better relationships.